No title~

Sorry that I'm really starting to miss you...

Me, Myself and I...

Me myself and I... This blog has always been the place where I can write down my the happy, the fun, the sad, the exciting stuffs I do in my life... Besides that, in this blog also, I'll post random things or article so that I can somehow cheer you little stars too... But somehow... As time goes by... I somehow feel that I lost my touch already in becoming the Star of Stars in this site...

I'm always expecting too much from myself... Wondering how come I'm not that good in this or that... Pressuring myself to push for the better... Sometimes I even tried imitating certain people so that I can stand out among people... To be noticeable.. I was that desperate for the attention... But after a while... :) I guess it was useless.. Being myself was the best thing to do... Expecting too much from yourself really makes you feel tired and might also affect your mentality in doing things... Learned from mistakes... Thats why have to let other people know also that it is not good to expect so much from something or someone...

I'm just happy with what I am now...

Here saying thank you to my friends and all for accepting me in their life.... :) It's an honour to know each and everyone of you... =)

Star of Stars...

Wishes you the very best...

Too much something is not good for yourself also...

Cheers people...

=)

A New Philosophy I Learned Today~~~ [For Guys Only...}

Was sitting at the cafeteria with a group of professors... One of them is Mr. X...

And all of a sudden he told us a philosophy he realized in universities...

He came up with a bold statement... stating that having a girlfriend in the same university is like applying a new course in your faculty...

I asked... How is that so....

He directly stressed that when you have a girlfriend in the same university... You must have full attendance... Just like a new course.. you have to be in all the classes.... Then sometimes you'll have pop quizzes.. meaning... anytime also you'll have to be on call for your girlfriend... Just like a new course... when you have pop quiz... you need to be there for it... if not you'll lose marks in your coursework...

Besides that... this should be the last statement he said... Having a girlfriend in the same university means... You can only register the course once... First come first serve basis... You register already... then other people must wait till the course is free already... one course cannot be registered to 2 people... NOT GOOD!!! never do that okay people... :)

All of the above is originally from Mr. X... and not from your beloved Star of Stars... You know I'll never come up with this type of statements right?? :)

Yours truly...

Star of Stars...

=)

Bored Saturday afternoon...

Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep, Sleep~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~!!

What else to do on a Saturday afternoon? It seems like everyone is out there enjoying themselves when I'm sitting alone in my room... how sad... hahahaha... :P

Currently listening to HAVE A NICE DAY!!!.. but currently not having a nice day... sigh~~~

I WANNA PLAY BOWLING ALSO!!!! lolz..

It's been a long time...

Hey there people...

Mr Star of Stars is back from the dead... Hahahaha.....

I'm back in action and is out there to give out his shine to everyone again... hahaha....

Got lots and lots to post about... I hutang you all a lot of stories actually... I'M SORRY!!!

Will make amends... :)

I know you all miss me...

Don't be... Coz I'm really back from the dead...

One more thing...

I know you love me... hahahaha....

Loves,

Star of Stars...

1st October....

I LOVE MYSELF~~~ WEEE~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Joy

Hey there people... Once again... I'm back... The Star of Stars... wuhuuuuu~~~~~~~

I'm having a test in a weeks time....

Assignments piling up already... =)

I need a beer... or better still I NEED MR JOHNNIE...

at least that is what I can afford at the moment la... hehehehe... ^^

I want to go drunk...

Not think about academic stuffs for the moment... hehehehe

But it's always best if you have friends to accompany you...

I want my drinking mates people... :P

Remon... Leon...

WHEN ARE WE GETTING OUR NEXT BOOZE??

or

LETS FIND MR JOHNNIE AGAIN~~~~

hahahaha...

Do or Don't

What ever you do in life may be insignificant… But it’s very important that you do it… Cause nobody else would…

Like when someone comes into your life… and after that he says “you’re nowhere near ready…” But the other half says… “May you’ll always be together forever…”

So... You decide... to do it or not???

A piece of mind...

YOU CANNOT SATISFY EVERY PERSON'S NEEDS...

THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS TRY TO BE HAPPY AND THAT THE OPPOSITION IS NOT DEEPLY OFFENDED WITH YOU...

YOU STILL NEED TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE... NOT LIVE THEIRS...

I'm just saying only... You might not agree with me...

But what I'm saying definitely will cross your mind someday...

We hope we do not make other people be angry with you...

So you need to satisfy everyone's needs...

But in the end you will suffer...

Talk it out with the person...

So that you'll have understanding from both parties...

That will be much better to me...

At least a lot better than you lose your friend totally...

At some point... You'll definitely appreciate your friend's existence...

It's your decision... Not mine...

Star of Stars is just here to write out my point of view...

You need not follow this also...

Ignore it if you feel offended...

Thank you...

Regards...

Star of Stars...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY..

HAPPY 19th BIRTHDAY VIVIAN!!!

Decisions...

What are decisions???

Decisions are times when you decide on what to do or what to choose... To think of what's right or wrong... The good and evil of your decisions.... Decisions are sometimes somewhat very mind-cracking when you need to think of a lot of things... The consequences of those decisions.... Will you change your life?? Other people's life or anything that is happening in life....

Can't decisions be easier to be decide.... You decide to feel good... But eventually for you to be good you have to hurt someone else... And to lose them is also not really good for you... However... When you decide to not lose a friend a some sort... you end up hurting yourself only... Why does it have to be this difficult... Making decisions is really a pain in the ass....

Think about it... Is your decision worth it all??? Make the correct one... or you'll regret it for life.. But no matter what happens... You'll still have to go on with life...

p/s: Secret...

Star of Stars is back...

=)

The burden I have on my shoulders will be LIFTED...

And then I'll move on...

Happily of course...

And may this decision be the correct one..

I'll try my best people..

And I need all your lovely support for that...

With lots and lots of love...

Calvin Yong..

=)

Hey people...

I'M DONE MISSING YOU...

I GUESS THIS IS A BIG DECISION...

BUT I JUST THINK IT'S BEST FOR ME TO MOVE ON...

EVEN THOUGH...

I HAVE NOT TRIED CONFRONTING YOU BEFORE...

I'LL JUST PRAY FOR YOUR HAPPINESS...

CHEERS EVERYONE...

AND CHEERS FOR YOU TOO... =)

I'm ME...

This post is written by me myself.. Calvin Yong.. Not using the name Star of Stars... I'm already 19.. and I know about myself better than anyone of you out there... I am who I am... You do not have to talk behind my back or anything... If you want to.. Just come directly to me.. Say it in my face... SPIT IT ALL OUT... I know myself okay... Yes I know I'm lazy and all those stuffs you talk about me... I also know what's important okay... I'm not always blinded by games and only the fun stuffs.. I know when to be serious and all that... To me.. we do not need to show other people that you are a serious guy.. To me... Show the others that you are a happy guy.. that is what matter most... I read a line somewhere... It tells us that... we will only be happy when everyone around you is also happy... We share happiness together... That's why if you always show seriousness in yourself.. People around you won't be happy too.. They would definitely be wondering what actually happened and would try to be away from you... That's what I wanna say... I'm not referring to anybody... This post has nothing to do about me hating you or angry with anyone... This post came from the heart while studying...

All of us are having our finals soon... Not only in my current university... other places also the same... That is why... can't we just drop all those unwanted matters that is bothering you and just be focused on the examinations that we are facing.. I'm suffering now to really get back on track... and I know some of you would just say that this serves me right cause I wasn't putting enough effort before this... But I think it's still not too late... I can still do it if I want to... I don't mind getting all those taunts from anyone... But I'll definitely strive for the best for this finals...

This might be the last post before the finals... Might be... So I'm taking this opportunity to wish all of you out there the best of luck for the finals... Let us strive for the best out of this exams...

This post has no intention to make anybody feel offended...

I just wanna make it clear only...

With that...
Please do accept my millions of apologies...

I may have crossed the line sometimes...

But I really have no intention in hurting anybody's feelings...

Sincerely and lots of loves...

Calvin Yong...

=)

Wrong Post...

Staying up late to study...

Trying and striving to be the best...

But all these last minute studies really pisses me off...

CALVIN YONG!!! Wake up and do something worthwhile...

Don't be a screw up and act as if nothing happen..

You know that you have a very big responsibilty towards your family...

What were you thinking??

Play all day long and not study...

Now you are regretting??? You must be kidding me...

Go screw yourself with your excuse...

You've made your choice when you decided not to study in the first place...

Don't cry over spilt milk...

You're just wasting time...

So get back up and kick some examination's ass...

Fuck those bad results... Good grades are coming in fast...

Catch them...

Lastly.. last reminder... Don't get all fucked up and down with your results...

Best wishes...

Star of Stars...

Sorry for the vulgar words...

Really feeling one kind this few days...

Sorry to all you little stars...

Best wishes for everything in life...

From the one and only...

Star of Stars...

Hate...

I HATE MYSELF!!!!!

I'm Freaking Happy...

Hey people... It's the 15th of April, Thursday to be exact again....
A little confession to make...
I know about my weakness... and that is repeating something over and over and over again about something that might piss people off just like that...
I'm changing okay... But that's just me... If you don't like it.. You can just come up to me and say it into my face...
Everyone has their own limit and the boundary... Yes I always joke around about things.. But sadly.. people always take those jokes from a different angle... For that I'm very sorry... I'm apologizing right this moment....

About the title....
I'm freaking happy because finally I know what's wrong with me... I finally found out that I'm arrogant... I'm selfish... I always bullshit in front of people... ARGHHHHH and all that... hahaha...
Damn I'm freaking happy...
For that I'm really sorry as I do not even say hi when I see you... Under certain circumstances I felt a little shy when I see you... *you is referring to a lot of people... NOT ONE PARTICULAR PERSON*

Besides that, I'm freaking happy now because finally I found out that I'm very very lazy and I do not have the intention to move on and excel myself in life already...
Finally I made my choice to do this... I'M SOOOOOOO HAPPY!!!!!
hahaha.... with that I thank you people...




Before I end... I wanna thank those people who had shown me and told me where I had gone wrong and all that... I sincerely bow to you and say Thank You from the bottom of my heart... =D

Lost...

Can't seem to really understand
The feelings I have for you
Is it real or just untrue
God please help me
The Star of Stars
Calvin Yong
:'(

Friends or Lovers???

Will friendships last longer or the relationship between lovers last longer??
This question suddenly came to my mind when I was already on bed trying to get to sleep... Why the question?? I myself also have no idea... Cause I read another statement from a friend's page.. That is why I had this question in my mind for the whole day...

It's 3.23 am already...

Here's another question... Are you going to sacrifice more for friends or your lover with a condition that the friend you have is a good friend that you will be living with for the next 5 to 10 years... So who is it going to be...

I'm just blank and blur at the moment...
Hahaha...
May you readers live a simple and happy life...
Love always...
SoS...
Calvin Yong...

:-)

Just bored and listening to...

Back At One
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One... You're like a dream come true...
Two... Just wanna be with you...
Three... Girl, it's plain to see...
That you're the only one for me... and

Four... Repeats steps one through three...
Five... Make you fall in love with me...
If I ever believe my work is done...
Then I'll start back at one...
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I will try... :)

The Star of Stars never gives up...
No matter whats ahead of me...
Because that's what a Star is made of...
That is why I'm Calvin Yong...
Loves...
The Star of Stars...

Blur blur Calvin Yong...

What is it with you...
The ever so happy go lucky Calvin Yong is no longer the happy go lucky guy anymore...
Now its a different Calvin Yong...
I'm sick... [Go check la... Whats wrong with you???]
People are always concern of you but you just seem to ignore them...
Some people still needs your liveliness in their group...
Some people still needs your presence in their group...
Some people still needs your laughter and your silliness in their group...
Some even need you to be by their side when the times are rough...
I just missed the old me...
The open minded and optimistic fellow is no longer that joyful...
Sometimes the thought of committing suicide always comes into the head...
Sorry to some people...
Not that I do not trust you...
Its just that I hate it if someone has to be troubled worrying about my stuffs...
Its a waste of time...
You better think of your stuffs first...
I know you all would say that it's nothing...
But to me... It is something...
Over the years... I've always thought that I would be able to help people with things only...
And hope nothing in return.. Just a simple respect would do...
That is all that I ask for...

Oh ya... Star of Stars has finally fallen for someone... Hahaha... But to me it is kinda impossible for the both of us to really start a relationship... Even when I know I'm kinda close [close as in good friends] to her at the moment... To me she is one person that reminds me about living live happily and not to always be down and moody... I know you will say that I'm being a little bit naive about this type of feelings... [This is something I suddenly felt like writing... Sorry for making you all bored...]

It's 3.36 am already in the morning... My sleeping time has become the other way round... I sleep when the sun is up and when night falls... That is when I'll be awake and not sleeping...
I think that's the reason why I've been suffering from heart pain... Arghhh!!!!!! I might really need to get a coffin ready already... hahaha.... I need someone to talk to... Someone who I really can just chit chat for the whole night and then just let it go... I missed chatting with my Nocturnal Life Partner... hahaha... Long time already.. really really long...

*I'm not obsessed but just having thoughts of you... That's all... :)

The Star of Stars is also human...
I'm also in the process of having feelings for this girl...
And that is why I'm blur...
But whatever it is...
The Star of Stars will always be by your side...
With lots and lots of love...
Calvin Yong...

Me

My name is Calvin Yong...
Just another simple guy trying to live a simple life...
I'm always down to earth when it comes to friendship...
I will never allow relationships to affect friendships...
Because to me...
Friendships bonding will never break...
But relationships always comes and goes...
You cannot deny that fact...
It is a way of life...
You can manage this two relations perfectly...
But definitely you'll deal with lots and lots of stuffs...
Happy Go Lucky has been my motto for a long time already...
But I just do not understand why people always sees me as the moody and not lively one...
Am I that down???
Its 3.31 am...
I'm sitting here thinking about stuffs...
Not that I'm under stress or being emotional...
Just thinking...
Thinking of what is best in life now...
Between friendships or special relationships...
Now... I'm saying sorry and apologizing in advance to the girl I meet next time...
I mean a special relationship that kind...
Just wanna say that...
To me... friendships always comes first rather than special relationships...
I know this is unfair towards you...
But you wouldn't want me to control you over your friends also right???
[I'm really crapping now... I don't even have a partner right now...]
[I'm sorry to you little stars out there for writing this post...]
[Hopefully you get what I want to say in this post...]

But still I'm not perfect... I can't really be the superman or robot... I'm still a human being with feelings and thoughts... a better word to describe is that I'm INCOMPLETE...

A piece of advise...
Never ignore your true friends...
They were beside you when you were in trouble...
Do not ignore them when you think you have to look for a special partner...
*Now I think that's why I'm still all alone...
Hhahahaaha...
Till next time...
This is your one and only...
Star of Stars...
Calvin Yong...

5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Single Men Make

Hey hey people.... Its the one and only Star of Stars here again... This time... another random post to entertain you little stars out there again... hahaha...

ATTENTION to all men out there... Take note of this post... Its for your own good... LOL~~~

By Andrea Syrtash, ONDating Special to Yahoo! Personals Updated: May 22, 2009

Andrea Syrtash gets the scoop from daters -- females and males -- about the top mistakes men make when they're dating. See how to avoid those mistakes

How many times have you gone on what you thought was an amazing date only to find that the person never calls back or doesn't seem interested when you try to book another date?

Dating can be awkward, and everyone makes mistakes. Of course, there are some instances in which the person you like doesn't follow up and it has nothing to do with you (e.g,. an ex comes back into her life...don't you love that?). But often it's simple things we do (or don't do) that prevent us from making a connection.

During the past few years, I've interviewed hundreds of daters and asked them what they were looking for, and it's amazing to hear the same themes. Women have certainly complained to me about the biggest mistakes they feel that men make in dating, so I thought I'd share the secrets. (Don't worry -- I have plenty of material on the mistakes women make, but that's for a future installment.)

1. Men Show Off or Try to Impress Too Much. Don't offer your resume, your earning potential, and tell us how you'll change our lives the first time we meet you. Instead of talking about yourself the whole night, ask questions! Don't come on too strong right away. Let us figure out if we want to be with you, instead of telling us we do.

2. Men Don't Listen to Us When We're Talking. We notice if you stop listening to us, if you ask us questions we just answered, or if you keep interrupting us when we're opening up. This drives most women nuts! Unless you're on call, don't check your Blackberry at dinner and don't check out other women.

Focus on the woman across the table from you and listen to what she has to say.

3. Men Aren't Chivalrous. The lines here are not always clear. We want you to treat us like equals, but we also want you to treat us like women. It's nice when a man picks up the tab or makes sure his date gets home safely. It may be old-fashioned, but a number of women report that dating a gentleman matters.

4. Men Don't Take Initiative. Men, how many times have you caught yourself saying, "I don't know" or "Whatever you'd like" when planning a date? If you've asked a woman out, a better approach is to give a few fun and creative date options and ask her to pick one.

Initiative doesn't mean ordering for a woman at a restaurant or ordering a woman around! It does mean confidently approaching your date with ideas, passion and interest. It also means you can be flirty and forward, letting her know how amazing you think she looks or how much you want to kiss her.

5. Men Say They'll Call and Then Don't. It's no surprise that acting like you're going to follow up when you're not bothers most women (and never underestimate the way word travels about you not keeping your word!). Better to end a date by saying, "It was nice to meet you. Have a good night." Don't act like you're going to follow up if you're not. If you've gone out more than a few times, be honest that while you enjoy your date's company, you don't feel a romantic connection. Just remember, communication is usually the way to go with a woman.

There are always exceptions, so I don't believe there are absolute rights and wrongs in dating -- but there are strategies. If you follow these simple steps, you'll be ahead in the dating game. At least you'll get an 'A' for effort.

Anyhow...

The Star of Stars wishes you all the best...

In your relationships with your partner...

Keep the truth inside your heart...

And never lie about it...

Its painful to lie about feelings...

Best wishes from...

The One and Only Star of Stars...

Calvin Yong...

Weak...

I've never been this weak before...
I feel like there's not much of power left in this body of mine...
Having to live the life I'm living now really makes me sick...
To add on to the misery is the migraine I'm having...
Please KILL me...

Star of Stars is really fading off slowly...
Till next time...
The Star of Stars will always love you...

Success...

Being able to write a 100 post here is an achievement...
Having a 100 stories to share with you little stars...
It has been an honour to share things with you people...

Success... Success is something I really want to tell some of the people out there...
They just do not understand this word is it???
Wake up...
I thought I was able to write something nice when I got to the 100th post...
But here I am... after a long time of thinking...
I decided to have this as the 100th post...
Here goes...

To let you all know...
There are somethings success is not...
It's not fame.It's not money or power...
And it is definitely not about you...
It is about the people you are working with...
Being a leader is not a success but to work with your people properly...
That is what I call success...
Being a leader isn't just about how good you instruct people to do stuffs...
It isn't the way you speak...
And also for sure...
Definitely not about people having to follow whatever decision you make...
You are not a leader when there's is no follower following behind you...

Success is waking up in the morning...
So excited about what you have to do...
That you literally fly out the door...
It's getting to work with people you love...
Success is connecting with the world and making people feel...
It's finding a way to bind together people...
Who have nothing in common but a dream...
A dream to be successful together...
Being there as a leader may feel great...
Great when you think you have everyone under you...
But do you feel great when the people are just ignoring you at times...
We are human beings...
Humans that do not like to be instructed to do something...
And then being judged again if you only know how to talk but not accomplishing anything...
If you walk the talk... Everyone will try and respect you....

I may not be a good leader...
But there are people that really knows how to lead...
People who really speaks out well and does job with the committee...
That is why the dreams of being successful is not an individual thing...
It is a dream for everyone to enjoy and experience... And then...
It's falling asleep at night knowing you did the best job you could...
Success is joy and freedom and friendship...
And success is love...
Love that brings the friendship bonding to a whole new level...
Where everyone will recognize you as...
A good friend and a good partner...

This is what success is all about to me...
How about you???

Here in this post...
I just wanna tell you...
One hand cannot produce any sound without clapping the other...
You need people to help you...
That is how work is done...
And success is achieved together...
Here I am...
The Star of Stars...
This blog is not successful without you stars out there helping me...
Here...
From the bottom of my heart...
I thank you...

A night walk...

A night walk...
A walk that really made me thought of a lot of things...
Things that really made me very confused...
Confused with the life I'm living in now...
The complicated life that really seems blank at times...
The complicated life that really can make yourself feel like a real jerk...
The complicated life that really makes you feel that you are no longer something to the world...
The complicated life that really drags you from being the outstanding guy...
The complicated life that really messes all things up and have you struggling all the time...
The complicated life that really had me think of what is simple...
The complicated life that really made the HAPPY GO LUCKY guy go missing... I'm really frustrated...

I am here sitting…

Right here in my very own room…

Open a can of coke…

Took a sip of it… And now thinking of what is next…

Normally I don’t take coke cause of the videos regarding what coke can to us…

But I’m really not myself at the moment…

Ohh… by the way… Its 3.42 am now…

The event is about 4 more hours to go… But I don’t think what I did is at my best…

I have been neglecting stuffs…

And also whining a lot without doing stuffs…

People… I know myself… Thank you also for reminding me…

Appreciate it a whole lot…

It has always been an honour to cooperate with you people…

I got to learn a whole lot throughout the preparation of the event…

For those who have no idea what I am talking about…

It’s an event called Minggu Mesra Kampus and I’m the Head of Department…

Head for the games and activity department…

My kind of thing as usual… Have lots and lots of fun… and then only face the music from the high committees…

Haha… That’s me… Your one and only Star of Stars…

And I am damn freaking proud of that…

Sorry to those who just cannot accept the fact of me being forever not worried with things…

Hey people… I cannot really do stuffs properly… And that is why I have always hoped for other people to help me out in any kind of situation…

I need you people to assist me with the things and all... Without you all... I am nothing already...

Love you all...

I know that I have a big mouth and only know how to instruct people to do this and do that… I’m really sorry for what I have done to each and every one of you…

I am rough on my words when talking at some point of time…

With that I’m forever sorry…

Sometimes... It is all about killing and end my life...

The Star of Stars...

Is down and out again...

Show your true identity through singing...

Its has been here for a long time already... It was in my drafts for a long time already... Anyways... I'll just post the photos and a few captions to let you little stars enjoy yourself....
Singing has always been something that can really help you express and enjoy yourself... that is why singing with them made it even more fun and to sing till you lose your voice, That's the best part....

Started off with a group photo first...

Don't know what are they laughing at... Maybe WS went off pitch... lolz..

Post 1st la before you sing... that's them la... hehehehe

They stole my pose again... haihzzz

Refresh yourself with a drink... then Qiqi sang like Beyonce.. or Celine Dion..

Maybe it was Rihanna... or Kate Perry... hahaha

Oh noo~~~ Paparazzi.... Don't show your faces~~~

This girl ran away... hahaha... paparazzi chase her out already...

Smiles...

Smiles also..


We are not watching anything unrated... It's ILLEGAL...

And here goes... ALL MY POSE ALL STOLEN!!!!

And here... from the next picture on... It'll be all face full of emotions... That is why singing is one way to express your feelings... hahahaha....

And yes.... That's me.... hahahaha...
Your one and only Star of Stars...